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Life Inspo!

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I love to write, listen to and read things that feed my soul. I am on the spectrum of melancholic, thoughtful and indecisive on a scale of human to other type of human. I like to think of myself as either very stubborn or very easy going, and on rare occasions I can be in between that.

Below are some quotes I love to read now and then on my most beloved Pinterest​ board.

Decide

So do it. Decide.
Is this the life you want to live?
Is this the person you want to love?
Is this the best you can be?
Can you be stronger?, kinder?, more compassionate?
Decide.
Breathe in… breath​e out… Decide.

– Merideth Grey

The day you had everything, I hope you remember when you had nothing.

– Rupi Kaur

To hate is an easy and lazy thing, but to love takes strength that we all have but few are willing to practice.

To love & be loved is why we exist

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This year, besides spending time with my awesome husband, I have spent so much time alone it’s insane. Most of that time I have spent listening to some type of podcast while driving somewhere, so maybe we can call this year the year of podcasts or the listening year (get the pun? ha!). I am a super introvert so spending time solo is nothing new, but this year has been a little extra. I didn’t realize it until I looked back and realized that it is almost fall. Living in the midwest has been a blessing and a curse. The blessing: It is mostly sunny and I am outdoors almost daily, unless am at work. The curse: It is freaking hard to make meaningful friendships here for me. I have met so many amazing people but none have turned out to be meaningful friendships and that has made me a little sad.
I like to have at least one friend at my current location who isn’t on my social media, so I can feel a normal connection with someone, without all the fakeness social media adds to friendships.
I am part to blame because I work and have school work and my week basically just disappears super quick, but being alone is starting to eat me up slowly.
I am starting to look forward to the days I work so I can catch up with my co-workers, which is sad seriously.

Better news:
I am obsessed with the show Insecure on HBO and I urge you all to try it.

I am looking forward to going to Chicago with Ian to see Hamilton and hang out and eat amazing food in the windy city

I am enjoying the summer break after summer classes (I made it on the deans list btw, not bragging..), and I am trying to make the most out of it.

I hit a big milestone last month, which was being a neuro-trauma nurse for a year y’all – phew, it’s been a trip!

Thank you for stopping by to see what I’ve been up to lately 🙂

NYC

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On the ferry to Staten Island, you can see the statue of liberty


I will finally check off NYC on my bucket list of places to travel to. This week has been one of the most exciting weeks of my adult life. One thing about NYC is all the FOOD! I don’t know about any other cities but I think this place knows a thing or two about food.
Our first food stop was a small Japanese restaurant we found near our hotel after arriving late at night, and we were instantly blown away! We did a food tour in Brooklyn the next day and I was a little disappointed with the choice of places in the food tour, but everything was good, just not amazing. I have to come back to Brooklyn just for the food and music someday.
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…continued a month later haha

NYC was fun, that city literally stole my heart. I felt like I was back in Nairobi, but it was 100 times busier and amazing and I loved it! I learnt I was awful at using the metro card (literally just swiping the damn thing!), and Ian glared at me for continuously getting locked behind those bars as the subway left the platform without us several times..oh gosh (insert facepalm), it was kind of embarrassing and amusing at the same time how swiping a metro card can require “skill”

Besides embarrassing​ myself at the subway station, we got to do an all-day walking tour of NYC (I don’t recommend it, it was tedious, if you are good at planning you can do it yourself), saw broadway shows and walked around time square, went back to Brooklyn and did some free wine & liquor​ tasting at a grocery store while waiting for a restaurant to open, ate the best food at said restaurant, and walked on the pier and across the bridge.


We did all the tourist stuff and I am hoping the next time we go back we can avoid all of that and do other things. I had so much fun and can’t wait to go back.

First outfit of November

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First outfit of November
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Well, technically the last outfit of October.
How adorable is this sweater guys?, it was a total impulse purchase at Ross this weekend. I was at the outlet mall in St. Louis this weekend, and the Ross at that location has some serious style. This was not the case in Washington state. Most of the Ross stores there were disorganized and hard to find any cute stuff, so you can imagine my surprise when I walked into this particular store.

How did you guys celebrate Halloween?, I slept through Halloween weekend, but was able to go see miss peregrine’s home for peculiar children last night. I am not too keen on dressing up for Halloween, so that didn’t happen.

My Halloween outfit details:
Cozy sweater: Ross
Boots: Marshalls
Pants: H&M
Purse: Nordstrom

My fall uniform

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Hey laides!

My fall uniform.

Do you guys own a piece of clothing that you feel like yourself most in?, for me it’s this vest. I absolutely love this vest and you can spot me wearing it over and over in the warmer months. I got it from old navy a couple years ago and it’s one of my old navy buys that I haven’t regretted haha.
I can’t believe Halloween is almost here, it’s especially exciting because Ian and I met on Halloween night, so we celebrate our anniversary on Halloween :). I hope you guys have a wonderful Halloween and stay safe
I wanted to get dressed up this year, but I forgot to get a costume online in good time and now it is too late.

Weekend

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This weekend, I am off a long stretch of work days and all I want is to relax and recover from the physical drain that nursing comes with. I have been enjoying reading blogs and seeing what people have been up to, since I can’t catch up when I am working.
I got a few snaps of what I am wearing in downtown Springfield, MO. Springfield is a small midwestern town with a lot of beauty hidden in it. I stumble upon beautiful gardens and houses while driving from work or going grocery shopping and I am amazed by the number of coffee shops in this little town. Good ones too. There isn’t a lot of diversity here so I feel like I get a lot of stares (which I don’t care for) in places, and conversation starters are always like,”are you from Springfield?” I don’t know what to make of these interactions yet, but I love the town aesthetic so far. Lots of colorful and cute cupcake shops everywhere.
Oh, and I learned a beautiful mess sisters are from Springfield, how cool. I am yet to visit Emma’s restaurant : the golden girl rum club, if I do I will let you know how that went.

Details of my outfit:
Jeans – American eagle
Top/Necklace – Forever 21
Booties – Aldo

How to look classy without hurting your wallet

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Be thrifty and shop the sales.

This is my only advice because it has worked wonders for me. I have noticed some of my cheapest clothing is what I look most classy in, and some of my most expensive items I don’t even wear that much and barely feel that stylish in. I am not saying it’s 100% not worth buying expensive name brand items, but when you score some “hot & classy” items on the sale rack, it does make you feel a certain way haha.

I scored this jumpsuit at Ross for 10 bucks! (not even joking), when I needed a last minute classy piece of clothing to wear to Ian’s residency graduation. The occasion was semi-formal dinner and I wanted to feel very elegant in whatever I was wearing. My first time ever attending a semi-formal grown up dinner event, I wore a dress that literally made me feel like a potato haha, and I never wanted to have that feeling again!

My favorite thrifty finds (designer labels on sale) stores are Marshalls and Ross. Ross can be a little overwhelming sometimes if it is a disorganized store, but I have found some treasures here.

Outfit details:

Shoes – Nordstrom
Jumpsuit – Ross
Purse – Forever 21
Earrings – charlotte russe

The art of wearing crop tops

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Casual look of the week – crop tops

I don’t wear crop tops as much as I would love, but the two that I own, I absolutely love them. Crop tops back in the 90’s were almost a taboo because most people were more conservative and didn’t want skin showing, (at least where I lived at the time) so my parents absolutely forbid me from wearing them, but I secretly admired the style when I spotted models on magazines or TV wearing them.

Fast forward, they’re back now and better than ever. This is one of my two crop tops, it’s more casual and I mostly wear it with high waisted jeans (the classic way to wear crop tops). As a short girl though (5’1), I feel like the look doesn’t pop as much as it does in a taller girl, but I’m still in the search for some nice high waisted jeans and more crop tops.

I paired the casual look with my target Keds because I was going to be running around all day and needed comfortable shoes.

Jeans: H&M

crop top: Forever 21

shoes: Target

Things making me happy this fall

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There has been a lot of negative things going on this past summer and now fall, from the raging monstrosity of infuriating politics in the United States, to destructive hurricanes displacing people in the south. I don’t like to ignore what’s going on because one, I am a very curious person, and second, I always feel an obligation to know what is going on around me, so if need be, I can help out by whatever means I am able to, be it emotional support, financial support, or just sympathizing with those in need, because if I was in their position, I would want the same thing.
Ok, now lets talk about what has been making me happy in the midst of the madness in this world
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1. Podcasts
My life literally made a 360 degree turn around when I found out about podcasts. They are becoming quite mainstream now, so you may have heard about them too, but in case you haven’t, go! now! and find out about podcasts.
I was a huge fan of talk radio (NPR)…slightly embarrassed to put this out there haha, but I wasn’t interested in all the topics they had, so I would go back and forth between NPR and audio books until I found podcasts.
The awesome thing about podcasts is that they have a huge variety of topics to choose from, so there’s definitely something for everyone.
My favorite is NPR politics. The hosts talk politics, in an unbiased way, and also make it fun and relatable, while covering important topics.
Other fun ones I listen to: The Moth stories, Fresh air (I pick and choose what to listen to), Serial (3 seasons that I went through quick! nothing new yet)
I have tried listening to nursing/medicine ones..but OMG!the speakers are so boring I just can’t! For all fellow nurses out there, if you find something interesting let me know!

2. Movies & TV shows

Latest fun movie: Masterminds. I literally almost cried in laughter and still have giggles here and there when I remember lines from this movie, it was HILARIOUS. Ok now go see it!

TV: Vice principals on HBO was pretty awesome, I always looked forward to watching this on my days off. Currently waiting for season 2. If you have Netflix I loved Stranger things – totally binge-worthy. Other Netflix favorites are the marvel comic series; Dare Devil, Jessica Jones and Luke Cage, and also Better call Saul. Ok I will stop now, am glad you’ve found out what a TV-Holic I am haha.

3. Being outdoors.

I have discovered a few hikes in MO. Elephant rock was definitely my favorite, followed by Hahatonka state park. It is very beautiful in southwest MO right now because all the green trees are changing color. I am slowly getting charmed by this side of the world and I am loving it..sorry Seattle (you’ll always be my first love)
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I hope you are not getting beat by all the negativity in the world right now, and hope you enjoyed reading this post. What is currently making you happy?, I would love to know
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Outfit Details
Dress, sweater, and earrings: Target
Shoes: Aldo
Purse and necklace: Forever 21

Laid back casual day date outfit

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We recently went hunting for wineries in Missouri, and found one about 35 minutes from us. If you love your wine, please stay clear of Missouri wineries, it wasn’t quite what I thought it would be. The weather here doesn’t really work in favor of good flavorful grapes, and the result is an almost-bland wine. I will however not let that experience stop me from visiting more wineries, because who knows, I may get surprised, I have seen people say good things about other places, so there’s still hope.
This is the Outfit I wore for the day date to the winery. This heels remain my favorite because of how comfy they are. I can walk a whole day in them and not get any blisters or sore feet.
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Outfit details:
Top – Target
Jeans – H&M
Heels – Marshalls
Lipstick – Milani (Flirty Fuchsia)
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Thank you for stopping by, I hope you all are having a great start of the week. See you next time!